New Holiday Traditions Adoptive Parents

Tips for Creating Holiday Traditions

New Holiday Traditions Adoptive Parents

By Bonnie Wakefield

Adoption is a journey of love, connecting individuals across different paths and backgrounds. Yet, for adoptees, the holiday season can evoke a range of emotions. The joy of festivities may be tinged with a sense of loss or a feeling of not entirely belonging to their adoptive families. As an adoptee, you’re able to do something about those feelings. The holidays are meant to be a time of togetherness and joy. Creating new holiday traditions can be a way for adoptees to create a sense of belonging. With that, you can create new memories for you to cherish forever. 

All About U Adoptions is more than an adoption agency; we’re a compassionate guide on the adoption journey. We’re committed to fostering understanding and connections. We want to help adoptees know that holidays don’t have to be a time of difficulties. Holidays can be a great experience filled with the creation of new memories. We want to empower adoptees with the knowledge that they have the power to shape their holiday experiences.

Shared Traditions in the Adoption Journey

There are plenty of traditions that you can share with your adoptive and birth family. Whether it’s celebrating birthdays, holidays, or special occasions, finding traditions that you can all celebrate is a game-changer. 

  1. Birthdays: Celebrating your birth with both your adoptive and birth family reinforces a sense of love. You can celebrate your adoption journey and connect with your families. This is a wonderful way to be the center of attention and receive tons of love on your special day.
  2. Christmas a Day or Week After Adjusting the timing of Christmas celebrations can offer inclusivity. This might involve spending the actual day with one family and dedicating the following day or week to the other. The key is to create a harmonious balance that ensures you feel connected to both families during the holiday season.
  3. New Year’s Eve: Embrace the symbolism of new beginnings by creating a tradition that involves both adoptive and birth parents. This could include a joint countdown and creating resolutions together. You can even engage in a shared activity that marks the transition into a new chapter.
  4. Create Your Own Tradition: You have the power to create traditions with your adoptive and birth parents. You don’t have to wait for a recognized holiday to come around in order to bring everyone together. Use your creativity and imagine how you’d like to spend the time together. When creating new traditions, it’s important to involve everyone in the planning process. 

Adoption and Holidays

The holidays can be a difficult time for adoptees since holidays often focus on family and culture. As an adoptee, these occasions may intensify your feelings regarding your identity or of loss and grief. Perhaps you compare your peers’ experience of holidays with your own and dislike the difference. It’s okay to acknowledge these challenges and wish for a more positive holiday experience.

Communicate your wants and needs to your family so that they understand you. The desire to honor your roots while embracing the love of your adoptive family can be a delicate balancing act. Expressing your desires is a crucial step towards creating a holiday experience that feels authentic and fulfilling for you.

Always remember that you can receive support from online and offline communities. You can connect with other adoptees and hear their experiences. They may have tons of suggestions for how you can spend the holiday with your loved ones. There are many adoption agencies that offer resources to help adoptees foster a great connection with their family. You can check out All About U Adoptions to see how we can guide you. There are supportive spaces all around where you can find solace and inspiration. As you navigate holidays, remember that your feelings are valid. You can create a wonderful sense of joy and connection with those that you love.

If you or anyone you know has an unplanned pregnancy and is considering adoption, reach out to All About U Adoptions. Our dedicated team will walk beside you, creating a thoughtful adoption plan tailored to your needs. Call us today to embark on this transformative journey together. Remember that adoption is love, and it builds families on the foundation of care and commitment. 

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